We are all huge question marks. Victims primarily of ourselves, which actually makes victim status just plain awkward!?! See, all of us have theories about the world and about ourselves. We go to encredible lengths to convince ourselves that our ways and beliefs are infact equitable because it keeps the world in our heads a little less confusing.
Which leads to us training ourselves to naturally do the wrong thing on a subconcious level. mmmmkay. Generally, most of our personalitiy traits, disorders, warped views, are easily justified, diagnosised & can lead back to something that happened early on in your life.... whether it was an event that was tramatic, an imprinted memory of a certain being who distorted ur view on the world. Think hard, really hard...
My point: we are capable of teaching ourselves beliefs that is wrong,of course there is some influence in the outside world, but it all leads back to what we WANT to believe and CHOOSE to believe. The phrase "Self-fulfilling presage" comes to my mind.
Are you trying to treat your problem as a cause, a thing that screwed up your life and altered your behaviours and mind frame, or as an effect??
true story....
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